{"id":19857,"date":"2024-11-12T22:37:11","date_gmt":"2024-11-12T22:37:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/?p=19857"},"modified":"2026-04-12T18:42:19","modified_gmt":"2026-04-12T18:42:19","slug":"rearview-glimpse-something-important-to-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/2024\/11\/12\/rearview-glimpse-something-important-to-me\/","title":{"rendered":"RearView Glimpse &#8211; Something important to me"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"nfd-container nfd-wb-testimonials__testimonials-10 wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"nfd-rounded-lg nfd-overflow-hidden wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-6cdc13f3 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\" style=\"padding-top:0;padding-right:0;padding-bottom:0;padding-left:0\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-stretch is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"padding-top:0;padding-right:0;padding-bottom:0;padding-left:0\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-vertical is-content-justification-stretch is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-b16ad781 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\" style=\"min-height:100%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/image-16-819x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19862\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/image-16-819x1024.png 819w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/image-16-550x688.png 550w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/image-16-820x1026.png 820w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/image-16-240x300.png 240w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/image-16-768x960.png 768w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/image-16-1228x1536.png 1228w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/image-16.png 1636w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-stretch is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<div class=\"nfd-text-lg nfd-p-card-lg is-style-nfd-theme-dark wp-block-group is-vertical is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-76a81b31 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\" style=\"min-height:100%;font-style:normal;font-weight:400;line-height:1.3\">\n<div class=\"nfd-text-balance wp-block-group is-vertical is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-8cf370e7 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">&#8220;Remind yourself that your task is to be a good human being; remind yourself what nature demands of people. Then do it, without hesitation, and speak the truth as you see it. But with kindness. With humility. Without hypocrisy.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:0px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer wp-container-content-9760934e\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"nfd-text-md nfd-gap-0 wp-block-group is-vertical is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-8cf370e7 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<p class=\"\">Marcus Aurelius<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"nfd-text-sm nfd-text-faded\">Meditations<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"nfd-container nfd-wb-text__text-13 wp-block-group alignfull\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"nfd-container nfd-text-md wp-block-group alignfull\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"nfd-max-w-prose wp-block-group is-vertical is-content-justification-left is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-c0ca7d81 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<h2 class=\"nfd-text-xl nfd-text-balance wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" style=\"font-style:normal;font-weight:600\">An important thought an post I had some time ago<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">One of the most interesting observable moments (awe) to me is when one light sparks the next\u2019s illumination.&nbsp;That spark and combustion is often brilliant.&nbsp;It\u2019s also at that time when the utmost care is to be executed &#8211; oft times that excitement leads us to a first encounter that can improperly set unreasonable expectations&nbsp;if one is too far outside the present- in the fairytales of the past or the future.&nbsp;Proper calibration and framing often empowers the candle that was lit and now lighting another or more, can establish reasonable boundaries and expectations where both candles can thrive, share, and blend their separate light sources to increase brilliance.&nbsp;There may be a cost yes, but the roi often surpasses that sacrifice (cost) replacing it with perpetual opportunity. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"nfd-container nfd-p-lg nfd-theme-white nfd-bg-surface nfd-wb-features__features-5 is-style-nfd-theme-white wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"nfd-text-base nfd-gap-3xl wp-block-columns are-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"md:nfd-order-2 nfd-text-md wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<div class=\"nfd-gap-lg wp-block-group is-vertical is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-8cf370e7 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<h2 class=\"nfd-text-xl nfd-text-contrast nfd-text-balance wp-block-heading\">The truth hurts enough by itself, you don\u2019t have to try to be hurtful.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"nfd-text-balance\">Be kind. Be humble.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:0px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer wp-container-content-9760934e\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-horizontal is-content-justification-left is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-f4f497dd wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<div class=\"nfd-grid nfd-grid-cols-9 nfd-grid-rows-1 nfd-items-center wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"nfd-col-start-5 nfd-col-end-13 nfd-row-start-1 nfd-border-bg nfd-rounded wp-block-image size-large has-custom-border\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0130-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19865\" style=\"border-left-width:3px;aspect-ratio:2\/3;object-fit:cover\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0130-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0130-scaled-550x367.jpg 550w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0130-scaled-820x547.jpg 820w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0130-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0130-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0130-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0130-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"nfd-container nfd-wb-call-to-action__cta-7 wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"nfd-rounded-lg nfd-overflow-hidden is-style-nfd-theme-darker wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"nfd-p-0 wp-block-cover\" style=\"min-height:100px;aspect-ratio:unset;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-image-19867\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0131-scaled.jpg\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" srcset=\"https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0131-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0131-scaled-550x367.jpg 550w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0131-scaled-820x547.jpg 820w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0131-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0131-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0131-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0131-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/happyinthehills.com\/zentriathlete\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/DSC_0131-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim\" style=\"background-color:#573423\"><\/span><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-cover-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"nfd-gap-xl nfd-p-card-square-lg wp-block-group is-horizontal is-content-justification-left is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-9cde4f48 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"nfd-gap-md wp-block-group is-vertical is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-76a81b31 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<h2 class=\"nfd-text-xl nfd-text-contrast nfd-text-balance wp-block-heading\">Blowing a candle out &#8211; removes all opportunity! <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"nfd-gap-md nfd-text-xs wp-block-group is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-ad2f72ca wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-d653275e wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\" style=\"text-transform:uppercase\"><strong style=\"margin-right: 4px\">? ? ? <\/strong> Be Kind<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\" style=\"text-transform:uppercase\"> ? ? ?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"md:nfd-items-start nfd-gap-md wp-block-group is-vertical is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-4b2eccd6 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"nfd-text-md wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-left is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-fdcfc74e wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">I just added this post to all my Neurodiversity Categories!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Remind yourself that your task is to be a good human being; remind yourself what nature demands of people. 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